No, you're not hardcore, unless you live hardcore!

I and some of my class mate were invited for an Indian lunch, home cooked meal, by our Indian class mate named Shilpa. She lives in Zug in a fancy house with the lake as the view!
The food was great and we had a special cheese cake made by Isabella, our Swiss class mate; but everyone was busy with this cool kid sitting on the table with us!

I always want to have a son, or a daughter, does not really matter actually; but I do not know when will I be ready for that kind of commitment. I mean it is really a binding long commitment. You cannot return the child when you realize that you are too busy to take care of that little person.